One phrase jumped out from their suggested five habits for staying on top. It's called hang a lantern on your foibles. I'll quote their narrative below:
To understand them better, shine a light on your weaknesses. Acknowledge them to others—you'll discourage people from punishing you too much for them. Use humor to illuminate your flaws; it communicates vulnerability while indicating you're still in control.Hmm, let me see, isn't that what I'm doing through my blog? I think I'm shining a ginormous industrial strength floodlight on my foibles.
I hope that's keeping me on top.
